What makes me visible is that I have figured out how not to talk. Since I have a choice my visibility is only affected by myself. Since I am only affected by myself I retain my ability to be seen. If being seen reflects my ability to talk, then I will become a talker, to retain myself and my visibility. Since if I am invisible, then others cannot see me, but if I wanted to be, I can be anything, since I retain the vaunted control over my individuality. I feel that with my invisibility and visibility in jeporady, I have more control over my life.